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Anger Management
Ephesians 4:26-27 ESV / 1,324 helpful votes
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil.
James 1:19-20 ESV / 1,265 helpful votes
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Proverbs 29:11 ESV / 1,065 helpful votes
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.
Proverbs 19:11 ESV / 817 helpful votes
Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.
James 1:20 ESV / 807 helpful votes
For the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Proverbs 15:1 ESV / 734 helpful votes
A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Ecclesiastes 7:9 ESV / 703 helpful votes
Be not quick in your spirit to become angry, for anger lodges in the bosom of fools.
Colossians 3:8 ESV / 584 helpful votes
But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.
Proverbs 15:18 ESV / 577 helpful votes
A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.
James 4:1-2 ESV / 504 helpful votes
What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask.
Proverbs 16:32 ESV / 443 helpful votes
Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.
Proverbs 14:17 ESV / 399 helpful votes
A man of quick temper acts foolishly, and a man of evil devices is hated.
Ephesians 4:26 ESV / 394 helpful votes
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger,
Ephesians 4:31 ESV / 377 helpful votes
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.
James 1:19 ESV / 331 helpful votes
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;
Psalm 37:8-9 ESV / 307 helpful votes
Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil. For the evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for the Lord shall inherit the land.
Matthew 5:22 ESV / 290 helpful votes
But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.
Proverbs 12:16 ESV / 281 helpful votes
The vexation of a fool is known at once, but the prudent ignores an insult.
Proverbs 22:24 ESV / 277 helpful votes
Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man,
Romans 12:21 ESV / 255 helpful votes
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Proverbs 29:22 ESV / 243 helpful votes
A man of wrath stirs up strife, and one given to anger causes much transgression.
Luke 6:31 ESV / 235 helpful votes
And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.
Proverbs 14:29 ESV / 234 helpful votes
Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly.
Ephesians 4:27 ESV / 212 helpful votes
And give no opportunity to the devil.
James 3:1-12 ESV / 198 helpful votes
Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! …
Proverbs 27:4 ESV / 178 helpful votes
Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?
Colossians 3:13 ESV / 177 helpful votes
Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.
Galatians 5:19-20 ESV / 173 helpful votes
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions,
1 John 2:1-29 ESV / 151 helpful votes
My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world. And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: …
Proverbs 25:28 ESV / 146 helpful votes
A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.
Philippians 4:4-6 ESV / 134 helpful votes
Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
Galatians 5:22-23 ESV / 130 helpful votes
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
1 Peter 2:23 ESV / 111 helpful votes
When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.
Ecclesiastes 3:8 ESV / 103 helpful votes
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace.
James 1:1-27 ESV / 97 helpful votes
James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, To the twelve tribes in the Dispersion: Greetings. Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. …
Romans 1:18 ESV / 91 helpful votes
For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-22 ESV / 78 helpful votes
For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; …
Psalm 37:8 ESV / 76 helpful votes
Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil.
1 Timothy 2:1-2 ESV / 74 helpful votes
First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way.
James 4:11-12 ESV / 72 helpful votes
Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?
Matthew 5:21-24 ESV / 71 helpful votes
“You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment.’ But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire. So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.
Psalm 7:11 ESV / 70 helpful votes
God is a righteous judge, and a God who feels indignation every day.
Ephesians 4:18 ESV / 69 helpful votes
They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart.
Psalm 4:4 ESV / 69 helpful votes
Be angry, and do not sin; ponder in your own hearts on your beds, and be silent. Selah
Proverbs 21:15 ESV / 67 helpful votes
When justice is done, it is a joy to the righteous but terror to evildoers.
Ephesians 4:31-32 ESV / 66 helpful votes
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Proverbs 15:5 ESV / 65 helpful votes
A fool despises his father’s instruction, but whoever heeds reproof is prudent.
Leviticus 19:17-18 ESV / 65 helpful votes
“You shall not hate your brother in your heart, but you shall reason frankly with your neighbor, lest you incur sin because of him. You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
Ephesians 2:1-22 ESV / 58 helpful votes
And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— …
Malachi 2:16 ESV / 50 helpful votes
“For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”
Psalm 4:4-5 ESV / 49 helpful votes
Be angry, and do not sin; ponder in your own hearts on your beds, and be silent. Selah Offer right sacrifices, and put your trust in the Lord.
Matthew 7:1-5 ESV / 46 helpful votes
“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Jonah 4:4 ESV / 44 helpful votes
And the Lord said, “Do you do well to be angry?”
Mark 3:5 ESV / 43 helpful votes
And he looked around at them with anger, grieved at their hardness of heart, and said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.” He stretched it out, and his hand was restored.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5 ESV / 42 helpful votes
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
Matthew 11:28-30 ESV / 41 helpful votes
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
Romans 8:2 ESV / 39 helpful votes
For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death.
Galatians 5:19-21 ESV / 37 helpful votes
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Proverbs 14:16-17 ESV / 37 helpful votes
One who is wise is cautious and turns away from evil, but a fool is reckless and careless. A man of quick temper acts foolishly, and a man of evil devices is hated.
Proverbs 1:1-33 ESV / 35 helpful votes
The proverbs of Solomon, son of David, king of Israel: To know wisdom and instruction, to understand words of insight, to receive instruction in wise dealing, in righteousness, justice, and equity; to give prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth— Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance, …
Ephesians 4:29 ESV / 33 helpful votes
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
2 Chronicles 15:7 ESV / 33 helpful votes
But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded.”
Ephesians 6:4 ESV / 32 helpful votes
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Galatians 5:20 ESV / 32 helpful votes
Idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions,
1 Corinthians 1:1-31 ESV / 32 helpful votes
Paul, called by the will of God to be an apostle of Christ Jesus, and our brother Sosthenes, To the church of God that is in Corinth, to those sanctified in Christ Jesus, called to be saints together with all those who in every place call upon the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, both their Lord and ours: Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge— …
Exodus 34:6 ESV / 32 helpful votes
The Lord passed before him and proclaimed, “The Lord, the Lord, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness,
Galatians 5:23 ESV / 31 helpful votes
Gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Luke 21:8-9 ESV / 31 helpful votes
And he said, “See that you are not led astray. For many will come in my name, saying, ‘I am he!’ and, ‘The time is at hand!’ Do not go after them. And when you hear of wars and tumults, do not be terrified, for these things must first take place, but the end will not be at once.”
Proverbs 22:24-25 ESV / 31 helpful votes
Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.
1 Timothy 2:8 ESV / 30 helpful votes
I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling;
Romans 12:19 ESV / 30 helpful votes
Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”
John 3:17 ESV / 30 helpful votes
For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
Jeremiah 29:11 ESV / 30 helpful votes
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
John 3:16-17 ESV / 29 helpful votes
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
Proverbs 24:7 ESV / 29 helpful votes
Wisdom is too high for a fool; in the gate he does not open his mouth.
Galatians 5:16 ESV / 28 helpful votes
But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.
Lamentations 5:16 ESV / 28 helpful votes
The crown has fallen from our head; woe to us, for we have sinned!
1 John 1:8-10 ESV / 27 helpful votes
If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
Proverbs 20:3 ESV / 26 helpful votes
It is an honor for a man to keep aloof from strife, but every fool will be quarreling.
Psalm 30:5 ESV / 26 helpful votes
For his anger is but for a moment, and his favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.
Psalm 103:8 ESV / 25 helpful votes
The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.
2 Kings 17:18 ESV / 25 helpful votes
Therefore the Lord was very angry with Israel and removed them out of his sight. None was left but the tribe of Judah only.
Hebrews 11:1-40 ESV / 24 helpful votes
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the people of old received their commendation. By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible. By faith Abel offered to God a more acceptable sacrifice than Cain, through which he was commended as righteous, God commending him by accepting his gifts. And through his faith, though he died, he still speaks. By faith Enoch was taken up so that he should not see death, and he was not found, because God had taken him. Now before he was taken he was commended as having pleased God. …
Psalm 118:14-16 ESV / 24 helpful votes
The Lord is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. Glad songs of salvation are in the tents of the righteous: “The right hand of the Lord does valiantly, the right hand of the Lord exalts, the right hand of the Lord does valiantly!”
1 John 3:15 ESV / 23 helpful votes
Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him.
Ephesians 4:26-31 ESV / 23 helpful votes
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil. Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. …
Proverbs 30:33 ESV / 23 helpful votes
For pressing milk produces curds, pressing the nose produces blood, and pressing anger produces strife.
Ephesians 4:1-32 ESV / 22 helpful votes
I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— one Lord, one faith, one baptism, …
Proverbs 4:23 ESV / 22 helpful votes
Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.
Psalm 23:1-6 ESV / 22 helpful votes
A Psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. …
Titus 1:7 ESV / 20 helpful votes
For an overseer, as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain,
Colossians 3:12-13 ESV / 20 helpful votes
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.
Colossians 3:6 ESV / 19 helpful votes
On account of these the wrath of God is coming.
Jeremiah 3:12 ESV / 19 helpful votes
Go, and proclaim these words toward the north, and say, “‘Return, faithless Israel, declares the Lord. I will not look on you in anger, for I am merciful, declares the Lord; I will not be angry forever.
Genesis 4:7 ESV / 18 helpful votes
If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. Its desire is for you, but you must rule over it.”
1 Peter 3:9 ESV / 16 helpful votes
Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.
John 2:12-17 ESV / 16 helpful votes
After this he went down to Capernaum, with his mother and his brothers and his disciples, and they stayed there for a few days. The Passover of the Jews was at hand, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple he found those who were selling oxen and sheep and pigeons, and the money-changers sitting there. And making a whip of cords, he drove them all out of the temple, with the sheep and oxen. And he poured out the coins of the money-changers and overturned their tables. And he told those who sold the pigeons, “Take these things away; do not make my Father’s house a house of trade.” …
Jonah 2:2 ESV / 16 helpful votes
Saying, “I called out to the Lord, out of my distress, and he answered me; out of the belly of Sheol I cried, and you heard my voice.
Proverbs 1:1-12:28 ESV / 16 helpful votes
The proverbs of Solomon, son of David, king of Israel: To know wisdom and instruction, to understand words of insight, to receive instruction in wise dealing, in righteousness, justice, and equity; to give prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth— Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance, …
Genesis 4:6-7 ESV / 15 helpful votes
The Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. Its desire is for you, but you must rule over it.”
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